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1, Mar 26, 2018

How to Curb children’s desire to buy and buy

Filed under: Parenting 2018 — admin @ 11:42 am

Both of my children have moved to their own respective apartments since they left home for college. My son moved to NYC in 2011. I don’t know how many times he and his girlfriend have moved within that area. Each time they move, my son is keenly aware of the burdensome piles of things they have bought and accumulated over the years. Same experience with my daughter.

So I keep telling them, “Be careful when you buy and bring in. Anything you buy takes not only your money but also your time and space which are not unlimited.”

This is something that I should have taught them when they were little. I don’t think I have done a good job in this regard.

I remember a saying: anything you bring back home loses its value. This is especially true with toys for children. My son always remembered what toys the stores had that he didn’t.

Perhaps I should have taught him that our resources and the space were limited. Perhaps I should have told him to enjoy what he had instead of thinking about what he didn’t have.

I am not sure which trick would work for young children. But if I had a chance to start all over, I would do the following.

(1) Give the child small space for himself, so that he doesn’t have room for too much stuff.
(2) Insist on having the child putting in order his own toys and restrict toy to his room only.
(3) Share with him the experience of those who cannot afford even food on the table.
(4) Involve the child with family budget.

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