Imagine this–
A child likes to draw and draws everywhere, which upsets one of her parents who scolds her for not reading like other kids, “Look at your friend… Why don’t you take up a book and read?”

Another child likes to use his hands making stuffs but has not learned to clean afterward. Instead of recognizing the child’s special aptitude, one of his parent says to him, “You are only good at making a big mess. You are such a good for nothing.”

A wife likes to save water from kitchen and uses it for flushing toilet. Instead of appreciating her effort at saving, the husband tells her, “I don’t like your doing this.”

A husband enjoys cleaning the floor. He cleans it everyday with full force. The wife asks him, “Can’t you find something better to do than this?”

I have tons of real life examples of failure to appreciate the activities or efforts of other people, and of being negative no matter what other’s doing. You don’t need a good imagination to see the consequences of finding faults with each other. Dear readers, start being appreciative and you will see sunshine no matter where you turn, a win-win attitude, good for everybody.